Passing years by years, I feel that life is so beautiful, decorated with lots of ups and downs, cheers and tears, sometimes smooth and easy then heavy burdens color the days but we should not to give up. We are not here to curse the darkness but to light the candle that can guide us through that darkness.
And when we are in the dark I believe that a single candle can defy and define the darkness. It is small flame but enough to give light.
But I remember the nice words from Rumi. Being a candle is not easy, in order to give light one must first burn. I cannot imagine how hard to live like a candle which burns itself to give light to others. It is definitely true, it’s not as easy as said. But there is an option as Edith Wharton said,
There are two ways of spreading light, …. to be the Candle, or the Mirror that reflects it.
A mirror or similar things that has the same function to reflect the light.
But please remember being a mirror requires many things that are not easy as well. At the end, the choice is in our own hands.